Have you seen Mystery's the Pick Up Artist aired on VH1? I've seen that episode and wanted to share with you guys my predictions.
What I liked:
1. The Students. Generally, I love the pick-up students because they're always so eager to learn, share a common interest with me, and so grateful for even the small of improvement they make. Students are hands down the #1 reason why I do what I do.
2. Ridiculous Outfits of Mystery. No one can peacock like mystery, hands down. And the shows budget really allows for some fancy stuff. I dig it. Peacocking that hard is actually quite a challenge. Don't believe me? Go to your local lair and look at all the guys who try it and get it wrong. It's a trainwreck.
3. The Challenges. It was fun, entertaining and creative. Winner of one contest gets to walk around with a cute puppy in the next. Hillarious.
What I didn't like:
1. Mystery is so attached to his structured method that he wasn't aware why there some of his students fail... He got a blind spot on seeing that. "Yeah he should have used a false time constraint". How about his lame body language, complete lack of masculine vibe and messed up compliance ratios?
2. Isn't it tiring using a 4 year old material like a non-sensual conversation that goes NOWHERE! Yeah you bet! Sure you can get the girl to answer your question, but I don't see a PROGRESS with it. Instead of teaching the guys memorizing routines and lines, why not make them powerful, masculine and effective?
3. J-Dog's hair. I don't think I need to go into this. Looks like the poor dude passed out on a park bench in the middle of a graffiti contest. While there were certainly things about this show that bug the working pick up artist in me, I have to hand it to Mystery and VH1 for presenting the community in a good light to a mainstream audience.
Out of the four dudes left, here's some of my predictions:
Alvaro: This guy COULD become a master pua, but not in a few weeks, and not under Mystery's tuleage. He got the "inner flame" that drives him to excel in different things, but he needs to be consistent, and kill his approach anxiety and fear. He's still got the brakes on but in the moment he gets past that, his game will explode.
Brady: Tall, good looking, fast learner. He's chill, makes steady progress. His use of corny material, and constant second guessing of himself is what's holding himself back. If he just chills out and acts NORMAL he'll be on fire. Again though, like Joe, will probably become complacent at a certain level.
Joe: I think he has got the serious potential in the show. He got the attitude down, but he's the type that will get a certain level of success and become complacent. He'll get a girlfriend and develop his social circle and work off that. Not TRUE master pua material. I just don't see the kind of passion/drive that would carry him to Master PUAdom. He may do well on the show, however, just due to the lack of competition.
Pradeep: He could be a master pua, but he has to seriously increase his sexuality appeal. He's still in the friend zone. Doesn't matter if he got that chick's number on the show because that was FRIENDLY number close. He's interesting but... too interesting. It's giving the woman something to be attracted to, but those things are too exterior to get that deep physical attraction that a pua needs to do fast pulls, sensual selection switching, multiple relationship stuff, etc...
Overall, the show is super entertaining and I'll definitely be trying to catch another episode if I can.
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Sunday, November 11, 2007
Friday, November 9, 2007
Attraction Techniques for Pick-Up Artist
One of the mistakes that some guys commits when they first meet a girl is to show that they understand the GAME. Like, they'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how girls will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know girls are more intimate guys and blah blah.
I will refer to this kind of act as nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
As a pick-up guru this kind of things will make your conversation topics very poor with women. Especially hot ones.
It might work with the social anthropologist grad student, but to the girl that any man in his right mind would be attracted to, there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(BTW - if you happen to find a girl that loves this kind of stuff, by all means go on with it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an ATTRACTION techniques for most of the female population)
1. It puts her on the defensive. It's exactly like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a huge turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. There are chances that her awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters which is called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you LOVED for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
What would expect to a girl who spends the majority of her time thinking about new shoes, jewelries and her problems with her boss, wouldn't you think it's just too alien and weird for her when you talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club".
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without being ashamed!
3. To a girl that DOES understand it; you talking about it make it seem like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women are capable of open relationships and tend to also like women, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating ALSO get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So... What to do instead?
Well - one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
**Understand society's programming, understand her specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
Once you try these techniques, you're absolutely see a big difference in your game.
Keep your knowledge of REALITY to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)
I will refer to this kind of act as nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
As a pick-up guru this kind of things will make your conversation topics very poor with women. Especially hot ones.
It might work with the social anthropologist grad student, but to the girl that any man in his right mind would be attracted to, there are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(BTW - if you happen to find a girl that loves this kind of stuff, by all means go on with it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an ATTRACTION techniques for most of the female population)
1. It puts her on the defensive. It's exactly like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a huge turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. There are chances that her awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters which is called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you LOVED for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
What would expect to a girl who spends the majority of her time thinking about new shoes, jewelries and her problems with her boss, wouldn't you think it's just too alien and weird for her when you talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to girls in the club".
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot girl. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without being ashamed!
3. To a girl that DOES understand it; you talking about it make it seem like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women are capable of open relationships and tend to also like women, and generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating ALSO get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!
So the moment you do it, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will instantly disqualify you.
So... What to do instead?
Well - one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
**Understand society's programming, understand her specific programming, and appear to be under the exact same programming.**
Once you try these techniques, you're absolutely see a big difference in your game.
Keep your knowledge of REALITY to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything amazing, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum as well)
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